For the past six months me and my SO have been having issues with the BM. They have an aggreed schedule for when they each have the kids. She is constantly making excuses as to why she cannot pick them up or why she has to bring them back early. Most of the time she says its work related. If I thought that were true I'd have no issue with it but alot of the times she'll make FB posts about who and where she's partying with at the time shes supposed to be working. This last time she brought them back early because again she had to work extra days. Earlier in the day she made a FB post about her going out of town. Dont get me wrong. I love having the kids around and so does my son. I just think its unfair that we have to constantly change our schedules because she doesnt want to deal with the kids. I'd like a break on my days off sometimes. I've talked to my SO several times about it. He has started standing up to her a little more and this last time he asked her about it. She told him the post was for next weekend and she then removed him from her fb. He took her word for it and said nothing more. This infuriates me. Am I wrong for thinking he needs to grow a pair and quit letting her yank us around? I'd like to get a handle on this situation. I feel helpless.