Im very new on here, but my step parenting issues arent. Im wondering if anyone has input to some frustrations of mine. I have 3 children, two which are in college and one in high school. My husband has four, ages 10, 8, 5 and 3. He hasnt worked in almost 2 years because he constantly has his kids! picking them up from school, sports, friends, weekends, weekdays, holidays, 5 days a week! His two ex wives are now remarried both employed, big fancy houses with their new men. My husband is struggling to feed them and take them to school. When we first met, he only had them 3 days a week. I feel like theres no room for me in this at all! his ex wives are constantly texting him or at our door. He doesnt have these issues with me as my kids are in college. When I bring up the issue and ask " where are their moms through all this?" he gets mad and things go bad! its a sore subject so I left, my kids are pretty much all grown and I feel that if I have to take on this huge responsibility of taking on his, at least their mothers can pitch in.