DH is off from work Wed and Thurs.... But has to work Black Fri, Sat, and Sunday... So I asked him what he planned to do. Is he asking for a comp and holiday and a vacation day for Fri-Sun when his kids are here?
We aren't talking about summer when he obliviously has to work his reg schedule. We are talking holiday. His kids don't come here to spend the majority of their time with me. They live 6 hrs away.
I reminded him this was his parenting time, not mine. He needs to figure it out. Whether he's taking a comp day, holiday and vacation... All or one and returning them early.... He leaves for work at 4:30pm returns at 6 am and then sleeps until 3pm. It makes no sense to have them here with me during his time when they would rather be at home with Mom and their friends. This isn't about him owning his kids time, but about him parenting his kids during his time. He told me I am trying to push his kids away. ( nope... But I don't want to be their parent... They have two already... Just want him to have a plan in place now... Rather then 2 days before)
Married 2.5 years. Thoughts?? Just seems like BM should have the the half of the holiday if all he is going to do is work.