I have thought about fostering or adopting for many years even before I was married. I have no bios yet and not sure if I will. The only concern I have is my skids, they are all kind of high needs. The oldest currently lives with BM but not sure if that will continue next year, she is autistic. My SD11 is emotionally needy and is kind of jealous of sharing DHs and my attention. SS8 has some attachment issues as well. Im afraid they may be upset if we have to focus some of our time on another child. Also, if sd12 comes back to live with us, it may be a bit more chaotic then we are equipped to handle. I just feel a strong desire to be a foster or adoptive parent and I feel I could provide a great life for another child. Thoughts?
on Oct. 3, 2012 at 4:02 PM