SD15 was supposed to be coming back home Monday, but that's changed. We picked her up Friday for a weekend visit and it didn't last long. We went to the YMCA first so she could get her ID card. DH and her played pool, and after a while we went home. Within an hour of being home she was sneaking outside to smoke and stole 2 of DH's pain medication. She was asked to come back inside and she went off on DH. I called the on call worker and they said the foster parents would take her back that night.
When we met the foster mom DH asked where SD could have gotten the cigarettes and turns out she stole them from her husband. She's also not having to do anything in the foster home. She gets to do many things without them watching her, no chores, stays up late with the foster parents son and his friend. Basically its a vacation for her. How that's helping her I have no idea. I talked with the caseworker today while DH and SD were in counseling and she said that they're petitioning for her to stay in foster care longer since things still haven't changed. Also she said SD was tested and is Not pregnant, like she told her mother (she told BM she took 2 tests and both were positive).