not taking care of SD and not acting like she gives two shits.... I am so frustrated right now that I just have to get it out.
Ok, this weekend is BM's weekend, just for clarification.
SD calls me this morning from school. She doesn't sound very good and I ask her what's wrong. She says she is freezing (she's shivering over the phone). She then tells me that she didn't know that when you are that cold and try to eat that you get nauseaus (sp?). I ask her if she's wearing her coat since it's quite cool here this morning. She said no, she called BM and she said she didn't know where it was. (It was a coat that we bought her last year that BM kept at her house after winter). I asked her if BM had bought her a coat to wear (she told my DH that she had bought SD a coat), she told me no. I asked her if she was wearing her hoodies, she said no. That when she talked to BM, BM didn't know where they were at either (she has 2 that we have bought and have ended up at BM's and haven't come back). She told me that she didn't feel well and asked if I could please help her since BM said she wasn't going to go up to the school. I told her of course, I'd be there in a few minutes. I then talked to the school secretary and told her I would be up there.
I got off of the phone and immediately got ahold of my DH. He was furious!! He asked me to go buy SD a coat and take it to the school. I went home, got the medicine, picked SD up a coat and then went to the school. SD was still sooooo cold when I got there. After I had helped her put the coat on and gave her the medicine, she gave me a big bear hug and thanked me for "taking care" of her. It almost made me cry...
Instead when I left, I just got pissed!! Why in the hell won't BM just go up to the school, give SD some medicine for her stomach, and buy the girl a coat or find her coat/hoodie that are already at HER house????
DH is so mad that he said when he gets off work, he's going straight to BM's house and getting together all the clothes and last years coat we have purchased (except the new coat which SD will be wearing) so that we have them at our house for when SD calls me.
So what do you think he needs to say to BM????? What would you do????