Step parenting is hard when bio parent doesnt stand by u
Well where do I start My husband and i have been married for 9 mos.The kids were great with me and I with them to start but their bio mom doesnt care for me so the kids now have taken her opinions on about me and is making things really hard and not to mention tells her kids that my 6 yr old son is a troubled child because of my parenting.I can assure that I may not be a perfect parent but I know that my child is a good kid and is the world to me.I have been a foster parent for the last 2 yrs and was easier to do that than be a step parent.My husband and I are on edge with each other on the days all the kids are here.Just recently his xwife texted him that i was skanky trash and he was a loser dad. She is a professional that works in a hospital and i never thought she could speak those words. I've tried to get along converse and make things easier with her but dead end. I want us to be a family but feel divided him and his kids and me and my son. Ive said to my husband that we need to stand together and he always is with them and doing stuff with his kids doesnt include my son and his kids treat my son like crap and im always on the defense for my child.. Thanks for reading please i need advice.