OK. So I have a question. Say that your sd (age 6 at the time) asks for pictures of her&her family here (which includes me, sm) for her to keep in her room at her moms house. If she herself was given about 40 pictures to choose from, and chose one of her and her dad, one of dad and sm (me), one of all of us, and one of just her dad, would it be reasonable to say that she wants those pictures there, they should stay there? Or does BM have the right to throw them away? (not give them back, but get rid of them).
I'd just like some perspective and opinions. Thanks! :)