Most will probably disagree, but I can't be the only one
So in MY situation the BM has gone for sad and pathetic as a mom to worse. And frankly she doesn't deserve the love her kids have for her just because she pushed them out of her vagina. They are still young and as they grow they will start seeing how she really is. It's come to the point that I really can't stand when she talks to them and makes promises to them and then breaks them because if crushed them.
I'm not going to get into everything she does right now. But another post made me think and I do think that she should be GREATFUL that these girls have a female role model like ME and because of that they might break the cycle of crazy that's on their BM side of the family. I am more of a mom than she'll ever be and I cherish the love the girls have for me, because its a love I've earned. It's not a default love for being the one that gave brith to them.
Ok end of vent