This is just a rant. I already know there is nothing I can do about it :)
Ok. Long story short. 8 years ago, I tried to be nice (I have been on both sides of the fence), Thought it would make things go more smoothly with SS. DH has custody. BM flipped after a year and claims now to be "scared" of me. Whatever.
Somehow, she is nuts enough to to get disability and is allowed to be a fat lazy slob. SS (16) is also lazy and takes care of nothing. (That is between DH and SS. Out of it.) There have been issues with SS here and there when we were all actually trying to be a family, but now all is between DH and SS. Whatever.
Now, BM is having issues with her BF and was taken to hospital. She had SS only as contact and someone called the school about lunchtime. Freaked SS out. DH went by hospital. Nothing wrong with her other than stupidity. I find out all this later when my SIL was at school waiting to pick SS up and she called me. SS rode bus home but DH tells SIL someone picked him up. By that time SS and DH are home. DH takes SS to see BM. Gone for hours! Had a conversation later with DH. BM is a hypochondriac and is boohooing to the only person who will listen, her son. It is not fair to SS at all. The boy is going to be just as mental as she is! He already is allowed to hide in his room and not follow any household rules, thanks DH and BM! Now this! Err! I just feel sorry for the boy, ya know?
Just irritated and needed to rant. Thanks for reading. Gotta get back to my mommy duties (I have a DS(16) and my beautiful gbaby(2)). Hugs :)