Before a few days ago, I hadn't been on here in almost two months. My life has been peaceful, shit has been good, and obviously, I haven't had much to talk about if I haven't been here.
Suddenly, because I make a post about taking initiative in house shit is done around my house, I have a terrible life and I'm making myself miserable because I'm making mistakes in my step life and now my step son is going to hate me and I'm not allowing SO to be a father.
What a bunch of bullshit.
As far as I can tell, this group is seriously full of bitter step mothers or women who AREN'T EVEN STEP MOTHERS that try to take their aggression and frustration out on other women by making judgements and assumptions based on one or two things they read. Just because you SUPPOSEDLY have a happy step family (I'm laughing) doesn't mean you know anything! The truth is, those of you trying to act Holier Than Thou and like you know everything are probably just controlling ass hats that have step children that secretly hate you, or you're just bitter step children yourselves, or- you're just bitter ex-wives that can't handle that their children have another woman figure in their lives and you're not a step parent at all.
The fact of the matter is, you don't know anything. Instead of acting like know-it-all jerks, why don't you try being human? Why don't you try toning down your superior attitudes and get over yourselves for five seconds to actually READ instead of going on and on about how you think (YES, THINK! not KNOW!) some step kid is going to hate their step mother because she is just SO MEAN for wanting to have her home and rules respected?
If someone doesn't ask for advice, don't give it. Not all of us want your opinion, especially if you're just an asshole about it.
Some of us come here just to vent about something that happened and is being settled. Have you ever heard the saying, "Shut your mouth and just listen?"
NONE of you are experts. N-O-N-E. So until you can show me your PhD in Awesome Step Mothering, stop acting like what you say is proven and the truth.