About a BM who loses custody of her DS in the same year that she met her current DH in the month of May, got pregnant (w/her current DH's child), they get married by Oct., move by beginning of Dec. sending a letter 30 days to her DD's BD that an out of state move will be taking place, due to her DH's job offer (she had just MET him 7mths before) not even the normal 60 days!
So BM moves taking DD states away from her BD who has court ordered visitation & moving away from her own DS whom she is losing custody of (which she ends up losing because of the fact she even went ahead and moved).
Since the move, DD has been alienated from her BF & the DS has hardly seen his own BM for almost 11yrs. now...YES, very sad! or at least I think so! Which BM says she was "tricked" into losing custody of her DS, I thought to myself, "Are you freaking kidding me?!?!" In most states, I think many of us may know how hard that fact can be, to take a child away from their mother???!!! The judge made his decision for a reason or at least I think so...what is your thoughts??? I personally think, ALSO, that BM in this situation was selfish...her feelings came before her DD & DS!
BM left DS ALL THE TIME w/BD or his parents SO MUCH that BD had to pay for childcare in ADDITION to the CS he was already paying BM. (This was not in their CO-he was EOWE dad in papers) BM was going out often & didn't have either child in her care. BD to her DS didn't have girlfriend/wife at the time (could be why he had him all the time??), BD to DD was MARRIED. DD was left w/BM's friends/relatives most of the time before she would EVER ask her BD (BD to DD- it went strictly by the papers-BM always had issues w/wife-not legitimate reasons) When school started (Aug.), DD had already been in 4 differ schools by the time BM moved in Dec. She had just met current DH in May. DD's BD was not told of the school changes, etc. All happened rather quickly! So BM was also found to be unstable.
So 2 kids who don't get to see a parent based on the decision this BM made! The state in which she moved to is where her current DH's family lives. He just wanted to live near his family. BM doesn't even have immediate relatives that live anywhere CLOSE. Since she's moved, BD to DD has hardly been able to see her & BM doesn't even see her DS. It's always been BM's vendetta to make it difficult for BD to DD to not be able to see her, BD had already been in/out of court w/BM that went on for over a year. Final CO had only been followed 1.5 yr.