My oldest sd has been terrible for the last couple years. She is grown and the many previous years before that were ok but we haven't even seen each other in well over a year. My husband told me yesterday that she is getting married. She is marrying a man with two kids from two previous relationships that appear to have had to overlap. He is really worried about the situation but I feel hopeful that her being in that situation might be just what is necessary to make her a better person. I can't imagine her dealing with TWO ex wives baby mammas or whatever. Anyway, he seems weirded out that I'm not terribly concerned about it. Am I that weird. We havent' had hardly any contact in the last 3 years, and none at all in like 18 months after she became really nasty and harassing to me. Anyway how is a person supposed to feel in my situation?