I have a teenage stepdaughter who is an only child..She is with us 60% of time. This is my first marriage. no children.. My husbands second marriage. He always is the one to assume all the parental control. How do you all deal with being seen and not heard in this pseudo situation? I always feel like a 3rd wheel and never feel like there is any respect for me... The father daughter bond seems stronger than my marriage...is this it?