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Punishments/Lectures Pt 2-WWYD?!?!?!

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The week before Halloween-there was a situation involving SD11/BM's ss9 and a few of his friends.

It was Friday night-about 11ish at night. I was folding the laundry-sd11 was on her FB showing me a video of her SS (bm's sd13) singing in choir.

SD11 gets a message from this kid-and it says something to the effect of him not wearing any underwear-and he's got a huge boner-then asked SD11 if she's gonna do anything about it and if SHE"S wearing any underwear!

She freaks-and said "kat look at this creep!" She shut her chat off-and I read the messages. It's ss9's friend who has a crush on SD11 but she doesn't care for the kid.

She gets off FB-I call Bm-cell's shut off-nobody's answering her house phone. So I called Dh at work-read him the messages-he said he'll get ahold of BM.

SD was kinda freaked so she goes to bed.

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Saturday after Halloween-BM shows up with SD13 and SD11. Bm had a talk with the boys. (SS9 had friends over-one of them snuck into BM's bedroom and swiped SD11's Ipod and used it to get on FB)

None of them are admitting to sending the messages. So, she contacted the other parents. All the boys are now banned from Facebook for a month. (None of them are over the age of 12) ALong with SD11.

Recently I posted about SD11's suicide attempt....it seems ss9's friends were giving SD11 some shit over the whole ordeal-calling her a snitch...a rat...tattletale etc on top of her classmates teasing her over having to repeat the 4th grade-finally got to be too much for her.

BM came to DH and I admitting she didn't know what to do. I told her to take away the Fb's, disable them. Ban ss9 and his friends from the internet while in her house. And to monitor the kids when they're online at home. (She's got 5 kids sd13,dd11,ss9,ds6 and ydd5) It's rough but it can be done.

MIL thinks i was wrong for interferring and DH thinks I didn't do enough.

What would you do?!

by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 4:31 PM
Replies (11-20):
rose0919
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:39 PM
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omg stop im gonna tinkle ................................  super tit omg 

Quoting saywhat2102:

Lmao! I will not talk about super tit!


Quoting E_is_4_Ethan:

 No, she needs to tell them to kiss your big boobies!


Quoting saywhat2102:

I'm suprised you didnt tell your mil and dh to kiss your ass! Ugh! Those little fart knockers need an ass beating by their parents. Stepson don't need a facebook page. And stepdaughter needs to just live with y'all already!

 



kkkaaayyyy
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:40 PM
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I would of taken a screen shot of the message for proof. I wouldn't allow any child that age have a facebook. It scares me the generation now having phones with internet and such. So many kids being harassed and taunted on fb. I honestly, dont' know what I would of done. I think you did a great job. Hope it gets better for you.

Tigress22304
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:41 PM


Quoting SammyJK:

Firstly, mil could bite me! If dh doesnt think YOU did enough then he should step in do whatever. Its not your job. You can help if you want, but at the end of the day, its not YOUR responsibility. What more did dh want you to do?

Here's the deal-SD11 is NOT DH's bio kid-MIL can't tolerate sd11 most of the time-we all know the girl's got some mental issues because of the divorce and whatnot-but MIL's big thing is SD isn't "fah-mily" because of the whole blood thing. whatever.

Point is-I called bm first-no answer so i called the other parent. That's good enough for me!

sandeeyo
by Le Bonjour Chat on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:42 PM
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She needs a big 'ole "T" on her chest.

Quoting rose0919:

omg stop im gonna tinkle ................................  super tit omg 

Quoting saywhat2102:

Lmao! I will not talk about super tit!


Quoting E_is_4_Ethan:

 No, she needs to tell them to kiss your big boobies!


Quoting saywhat2102:

I'm suprised you didnt tell your mil and dh to kiss your ass! Ugh! Those little fart knockers need an ass beating by their parents. Stepson don't need a facebook page. And stepdaughter needs to just live with y'all already!

 




saywhat2102
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:42 PM
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Tee heeeeeeeeeee:-D <3


Quoting rose0919:

lmao fart knockers!!! im crying here!!!!  girl you kill me with the crap you say!!! love ya tee hee

Quoting saywhat2102:

I'm suprised you didnt tell your mil and dh to kiss your ass! Ugh! Those little fart knockers need an ass beating by their parents. Stepson don't need a facebook page. And stepdaughter needs to just live with y'all already!



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Tigress22304
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:42 PM


Quoting kkkaaayyyy:

I would of taken a screen shot of the message for proof. I wouldn't allow any child that age have a facebook. It scares me the generation now having phones with internet and such. So many kids being harassed and taunted on fb. I honestly, dont' know what I would of done. I think you did a great job. Hope it gets better for you.

No need for screen shot-BM has full access to all her kids's fb pages. She read all the messages. It's a condition she's got in her house-if they want a social page-she has to have the password.

Tigress22304
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:45 PM


Quoting E_is_4_Ethan:

 I like your MIL as much as I like mine.. LOL

I would have called the kids mother and showed her the IM that he sent your SD.

If I knew which boy did it-believe me I would have!!! but it's my understanding BM already took care of that. Since none of the boys admitted to actually sending the message-they all got into trouble-not just the boy who's fb the messages were sent from

rose0919
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:46 PM

ok now that i have caught my breath  from laughing at saywhat i can give my opinion. as you know dd 12 has a fb i am on hers just as much as mine .i see what the other kids on her page say and do if i ever caught her doing any of that  she would be locked in a closet till she is 35. honestly if it freaked her out it wasnt her fault to lose fb. but you bet your butt i would have  contacted the parents of the other kid, with screenshots! 

it is not her fault  for what they said and she did the right thing by telling an adult. by her getting punished too will make her not tell next time because she will get in trouble. 


Tigress22304
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:46 PM


Quoting saywhat2102:

I'm suprised you didnt tell your mil and dh to kiss your ass! Ugh! Those little fart knockers need an ass beating by their parents. Stepson don't need a facebook page. And stepdaughter needs to just live with y'all already!

MIL can kiss my ass-she actually tried blaming DH and I and BM for all this mess (basically said if DH never kicked BM out-SD wouldn't be so mentally disturbed)

She doesn't have a say in our house-or in how we raise our children so her opinion really doesn't mean shit to me.


Tigress22304
by Platinum Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:47 PM
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Quoting sandeeyo:

She needs a big 'ole "T" on her chest.

Quoting rose0919:

omg stop im gonna tinkle ................................  super tit omg 

Quoting saywhat2102:

Lmao! I will not talk about super tit!


Quoting E_is_4_Ethan:

 No, she needs to tell them to kiss your big boobies!


Quoting saywhat2102:

I'm suprised you didnt tell your mil and dh to kiss your ass! Ugh! Those little fart knockers need an ass beating by their parents. Stepson don't need a facebook page. And stepdaughter needs to just live with y'all already!

 




I'm tempted to tit slap you all.

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