I just went upstairs to set SOs alarm.. he fell asleep with SS earlier and they have had no Daddy/Son time lately so i thought i'd leave them be. SO has missed work twice last week so being a good girlfriend, I wanted to check his alarm. I was not snooping, I learned my lesson about snooping last year. This text was open on his phone.
I am honestly shaking, Im so upset. We just moved. Things have been good. What the hell?!
ETA: (Its from a girl he dated after BM briefly.. we have been together 2.5 years)
Update: I texted him this morning and just told him I may have cleared some messages when setting his alarm last night. He asked if I was snooping, I said no but if he wanted to be with Tessa, just to go be with her. I told him we can't talk about it today until it's face to face. He has been pretty upfront about it and called and asked if I wanted him to make other arrangements for SS.