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Need to vent about BM. Thought we were past this point.

Posted by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 9:50 AM
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Honestly thought we were past this.  BF gets this kids Thursday night.  Well he has to work Thursday night but gets Wednesday night off.  So he called BM last night to talk to the kids and asked if he could trade Wednesday night for Thursday night.  So he would pick the kids up from school Wednesday then keep them all night take them to school Thursday then she could keep them Thursday night and he would pick them up from school Friday.  But she didn't want to do that because she would be losing out on 1 ½ hours because the paperwork says 5pm not after school.  Plus she didn't want the kids going back and forth and thought the kids would get confused.  The Skids are 11 and 6.  They would be fine.  But because she wants to be a bitch now on Thursday night he won't get to see the kids because he works late and they will be in bed.  And the kicker is a couple months ago he had to work Thursday nights and so he would just let BM keep the kids and she had no problem with watching them on his time.  And I honestly thought that they were past this point in the whole co-parenting thing.  It doesn't matter what the kids want just what BM wants and if the kids get hurt in the process oh well. 

by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 9:50 AM
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SammyJK
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 9:52 AM
Sounds like all kinds of fun
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Amy1973Potts
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 9:53 AM
Oh, let me sing you the song of my people....

Welcome to THAT club.
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canog08
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 9:53 AM
Typical.... SIGH.
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Mommyof5247
by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:30 AM
No surprise around here.
BM even fights with DH over his court ordered compensatory days!
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sassy711
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 8:48 AM

Some BM's are just that way.  They don't see what it does to the kids and really don't care, they're only concerned about "getting back" at the ex.  Sad but true.

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