Why does everything have to be so extremely all or nothing?!
I said sure. then she asked what size DD wears because she wants to get her something for Christmas from SS. sweet, but unnecessary.... and she asked if I could use baby food she had left.
then we get off the phone and I have 2 friend requests on fb. one from her and one from her bestie, and she messages me asking me if I wanted to go to lunch with them when they are done.
First, now I feel bad and feel like we are now obligated to get SS's brother and sister at her home gifts from him as well.
second, I love that we have been getting along so well especially since DH is deploying and we will be the ones facilitating DD and SS and my unborn baby's relationship... but its always all or nothing with her. she either hates me or treats me like a close girl friend.
third, I'm nervous to accept her friend request because things HAVE been going so well and she is very impulsive and I don't want there to be drama because of anything fb related.
DH is uncomfortable because every time I give her the benefit of the doubt she pulls something. but I am the kind of person who gives a multitude of chances because I want to believe in the good in people. ugh.