DH has 3 boys. Their mom is an infuriating person. Thinks she is GOD and miss perfect. But he thing is she sends the boys is crappy torn, too small, not weather appropriate clothes. The middle kid is 4 and his shoes had holes and were 2 sizes too small. I had to rip them apart so she couldn't use them anymore. The oldest is 7 and is always wearing pants that are dumpster worthy. The baby is 2 and she sends him in dollar tree long johns and no shoes. DH pays $900 a month in CS so there is no need for them to go wanting. She lives off her parents and pays for no bills so really no excuse but being lazy!
So around Halloween all of a sudden DH says he talked to her about it and he picks the boys up and bam, they are dressed better...... The baby is wearing converse shoes and torn pjs, yes that's an improvement!
So today I go looking for my wallet in Dh's truck cause I drove it the other day.... Didnt find my wallet, found those fing shoes!!
So I confront him and he says "oh I found the same shoes at goodwill that she had so I got them."
I told him that you can't just go buy size 6 converse Velcro shoes at target. Not the style they were! He is covering for her and I'm not stupid!
He lied to me about it! Not only do we have plenty of clothes and shoes for him but he knows if he wanted so e for his truck he could have just told me!
Update- we talked and I asked him if he was still sticking to his story that he just so happened to find the exact same pair of shoes at goodwill and after a bit he came clean.
He told me that talking to his ex gives him panic attacks and he told our marriage counselor that and we will be working on it at our next session. He has told me this before so its not new to me and I believe him. She is a pos and treats DH like trash. Even sent me a email in Jan saying that DH was her "property" and she could do what she wanted or say what she wanted to him cause he will always be hers. Ya she said that.
So I guess we will deal with it in counseling