Why does my SO get so upset that I don't want to babysit his kid? Maybe it is because he doesn't want to hand him back over to BM because he doesn't want her to know he is giving up would be time spent with his son to go play a show.
We have been together for 2 years and I might have stayed home one night in that time to "watch" his kid while he goes and does something else and the only reason I did that because it was last minute plans that were made late and his son was already in bed anyway.
I earn my money by being a nanny to a few families, and I just so happen to work all day tomorrow. He is upset because I don't want to come home from work to watch another kid that is not mine for free. I would prefer to go spend time with my friends for once.
His excuses are "I want you two to bond and go do something together,"Which is amusing because he has never mentioned he and I bonding before. and "I thought we were a family and you had my back when I need you." My response is "Then lets be a family and you not go to your show!"
I would like to try and not make a fight out of this with him, but I am beginning to think that it might be near impossible with the hostility he already has.
Is there anyway to avoid an argument and present my reasoning's with out him getting more upset? Because right now, it just seems like he is going to be an asshole about the whole thing.