Ok so I am not a step mom.....but the bf tells everyone that my kids are his step kids. So we just moved to a new house 30 minutes away from where we were living and the bf moved in with us. We have been there about a week or so. My 13 year old son is bored as he doesnt really know anyone in the neighborhood. I said to the bf last nite.....hey do you think you could ask Mark (my son) if he would like to go do something with you one of these days. His reply is...."like what? What did he do at home when he lived at the other house? Why cant he just go build a snowman outside or something?" I didn't even answer him. I'm so pissed because it is bullshit that he can't do one simply damn thing with my son? I won't "sit down and talk to him". I am not an ass kisser and a begger. But you can bet I am a fighter and that's what has come. Anyone out there can relate?