YES I KNOW WHY BM HATES ME.
But now its like what do I do with this knowledge....do I address it with her woman to woman or just let it go.
The only reason I even care is because she sent DF an email yesterday and he let me read it where she told him that he needs to make a choice, did he want a relationship with his daughter or one with me because he couldn't have both.
I read the email more than once and then add that to all the stuff people constantly tell me she says about me its clear she blames me for him and her not being together (which is stupid as hell)
I'm not going anywhere. Me and him have set our wedding date and we are moving forward with life. I want our kids to have a relationship, I want DF to have a peaceful relationship with his daughter and yes I as SM want to have a relationship with my SD....shoot me.
But because she's so hung up on blaming me that he doesn't want her, it looks like a lifetime of bullshit. And being that I know what the problem is, I'm conflicted as if I should address it with her woman to woman or let it go