I try to tell my husband to talk to my ss bcuz I am fearful that he will have problems as he gets older. He knew another man as his dad for three years he has another family he knew.all of that was taken away he has a different mans last name. I see how he feels left out of our family and he will asks things like "daddy can u come live with me and my mom? "
My husband also thinks I can't stand his son. I feel so hurt by that. His son is being raised by someone other than me and we have different expectations and rules. I just try to teach him my way while he is in my care but I wanna disengaged myself so i wont look like the bad Guy.
My husbands family tries to bring the boys mother around. My husband told they he did not want this but they keep trying. They do not know this girl becuz she was a one night stand that resulted in this whole mess!