Anyways, the kids can't stop talking about the baby and want to tell me how cute she is, etc... While I have absolutely nothing against this innocent baby I just don't want to hear it. Part of me is jealous because DH and I aren't in a position to get pregnant for at least a few years. Part of me is still mad that she blamed the pregnancy on us and can't take responsibility for her actions. And she has trained the kids to say the baby is their "whole sister, there's no such thing as half sisters," but that when DH and I have kids they'll be step siblings. I don't think it needed to be discussed, I sure wasn't going to say anything about her baby. And SD6 told us that BM doesn't want DH and I to have babies so SD6 doesn't want us to have babies either. And I am REALLY mad that after the baby was born BM sent DH pictures and was texting him all the nitty-gritty details of the birth. Also, when we took SKs to the hospital yesterday to see the baby BM invited him in the room and asked if he wanted to hold the baby. DH didn't want her to send pics or share details, nor did he go in the room at all to see BM or the baby. BM has always had issues with boundaries and what is/isn't appropriate.
I know I can't tell SKs that I don't want to hear about their new sister, it would be hurtful to them. DH understands how I feel and when they talk about her he tries to change the subject, but it hasn't worked. He doesn't really want to hear them talk about it either. I'm nearly to the point where I don't want to be around SKs right now because they can't stop talking about their new sister. I don't want to feel this way! I love SKs, I just can't bare to hear it anymore.
Have you ever felt this way? How did you deal?