Ok so dh is cp with bm having eowe and one afternoon a week. bm has never been willing to be flexible on changing weekends or times if something was ever out of the ordinary (not even to meet earlier). Well she's in school full time and said this semester one of her classes falls on the day she has her afternoon visit, and she would need to switch the day. Dh agreed and they are doing the adjusted schedule for this semester, but he said it would need to go back to the court ordered schedule once the semester is over. Bm replied saying she may need to change it again since she'll be working then, and her work schedule may interfere.
My question is how much is dh supposed to work with bm until it's ridiculous? The Co does not designate that bm is granted make up time if she can't take her scheduled days. Dh and I have both had to change our work schedules around sd, but bm wants us to work around her? The line of work bm is going into does not provide a set schedule, so it would most likely be bm letting dh know that she needs to change on a weekly basis.
on Jan. 20, 2013 at 1:57 PM