We were invited to ss's birthday party that bm is throwing. We're attending (wwwhooooole other story) and I was wondering if dh should get him presents as if it were our own party for him, lots of clothes and toys, or just a few things to keep at bm's?
bm is still very much in control of ss's time with dh (and she's loving it) so we can't have our own party for him. Court is in march.
OH and they aren't throwing this party together, bm was just nice enough to tell dh it was happening and he was welcome to come.