Oh boy something so simple can turn into a damn drama with bm. I mean, some may be saying i have no business in communicating with bm but i felt like i did. So, we are court ordered to carry ss's insurance. My whole family is on my insurance and that includes ss. Court said it was my or dh as along as ss is covered and the state did not have to pay for they didnt care.
Well, bm fought tooth and nail to not have ss on my insurance. She kept insisting that dh had to cover ss. Well, the fact of the matter is we are married and i am the policyholder for my whole family. Court said it was fine. Her case worker told her if she didnt want to have ss on my insurance put it in writting and i can remove him but she never did. 5 years later and we have a problem with an insurance claim. They denied the coverage since she went outside the network. She is ordered to pay co pay. My insurance did pay $15441.00 and denied $1060. We let her know and her response was " i am not paying" Well, that is fine but who is going to because she took her son outside my insurance network and she is responsible for the copay.
I texted her this morning this to see if we could all work on it to solve the issue because according to her she has secondary insurance for ss. Not to start trouble but to inform her about the letter i received and how we could all solve the issue. Her response was i will deal with "dad" and i advised her that was all fine but i have all the information she needed to know since i am the policyholder and that i encouraged her to speak to my husband if she was not comfortable talking to me about it. I mean come on woman all i wanted was to solve this like civilized adults since i have all the information about my policy. She was the one who went outside the network.
Did i step on her toes or something? She reponded more like in a smart ass ways but i didnt respond back.