Hi Ladies, as you know my SD is 13 years old and doesn't like me. We had a very goodvrelationship in the beginning. She never tells me the things that bother her about me but tells her dad and of course he tells me. I have always been nice to her but over the last year since this has started with her I have become distant and only speak to her when I have to.
She told her dad last night that I am now controlling him which he and I know are not true. I know I should be the adult and know that teenagers can be very attitudy as I raised 2 myself but I am having a very difficult time producing a positive attitude towards her when my fiancé always is telling me the negative comments she keeps making about me. How do I keep sane thru this? I feel when he keeps telling me the negative stuff I continue to harbor more bitter feelings. I asked him last night to not tell me the negative comments his daughter says about me because it just hurts and angers me more which I know I will become more stand offish. Is this ok for me to ask him of that or am I acting like a child?