Ss10 asked what we were doing this weekend. I told him that he was going to bm this weekend. Ss said he doesn't wanna go to bm and if he can go another weekend. I explained that bm and half siblings miss him and he should go spend time with them. Ss said he just doesn't feel comfortable there. I tired to explain that its only one night and that he will have fun. Ss then said "oh you and dad just want alone time" I told him that wasn't it. It's because his bm misses him and wants to spend time with him. Ss said "if you say so". How do you explain to him that he must go? Dh is horrible at talking to dh about stuff like this. He gets frustrated and ss shuts dwn.....what do I do ?
on Jan. 28, 2013 at 9:42 PM