Some may remember the post I made about how the bm announced her engagement on facebook before talking to the skids first ..this is to the bf that the skids dont like. Both of my skids are so frazzled by this news. SS13 that lives with bm has decided that he is going to stay with us for the week to cool down from being so angry with his mother. Both Dh and I arent really sure what to say to the kids. To us adults it really doesnt come as a surprise because this is Bm's character. SHes selfish and just out right mean at times. But the kids feel so betrayed. They feel unimportant and left out. I really dont blame them, but I almost feel like this is a start to the kids in understanding how their Bm really can be.?? Because really up until now the kids have been somewhat sheltered from all the wrong doing she has/is doing. But this is something that DH cant take the blame for....... any ideas or advice on how to have the converstaion with skids. This wouldnt be me having the conversation with them of course....it would be DH .