My significant other (SO) and I have been together for 8 years and we live together with my children and his daughter. He shares visitation with his BM who thinks their daughter is her BFF not her child. Recently my SO was asked by the school counselor to come to a meeting concerning his daughter. What he thought was a one on one turned out to be the counselor, several of her teachers and the principal, his BM and daughter, in a round table about the fact that his 4th grader has been bullying some of the other girls in her class. as the discussion proceeds and they talk about the fact that she has a bad attitude toward these other girls telling them that they cannot hang out with her and her click, that she "would never be friends with them", rolling her eyes and ignoring the other girls when they speak to her. After the discussion my SO and his BM talked to her asking her why she is behaving like this and all she says is that "she don't know"and they have pretty much left it at that ......no further discussions not repercussions nothing.......am I the only one who sees a problem here??? Did I mention she is only in the 4th grade?? What is my role in this should I say something? I did suggest to him that she needs to resume counseling which she attended for a few months for anger issues.