So me and my hubby have had separate accounts from day one. However we do split the bills evenly (when it comes to household stuff). We both make a decent amount monthly.....roughly 7k each. After paying child support and alimony clearly he has a LOT less "fun" money than I do. If the skids need anything he normally pays for it. Now the problem here is every once in a while he becomes argumentative with me because of howi choose to spend my "fun" money. Should I feel guilty that at the end of the day I am left with more "fun" money than him???? note.... He has NEVER asked me for a single dollar to cover any of the kids needs (clothes....books...toys) I do go out and buy them stuff every once Ina while.