So the other day I was picking my SS8 up from school when I over heard him talking to his friend. His friend was saying that him and his SM do not get along and he does not like her. My SS who is 8 WAY immature and not sure he could come up with this on his own said "My BM has not talked to me in over a year if it were not for my SM I would not have a mom. I don't like my BM and I don't ever want to talk to her again. She is not my mom anymore".
His BM has made no effort to contact anyone in regards to my SS in 1yr and 7mons. The last time she made contact was to tell me she was pregnant with my DHs baby. (NO she was not the last time he was in the state she was I was there too). Plus she was not pregnant at all. Before that it had been about a yr and 3 mons since the last time she had tried to contact anyone.
I not sure if I should act like I didn't hear it or if I should say something, and if I should say something why should I say?
Oh ya one more small detail.... She has openly admitted that she wants nothing to do with my SS because his dad wants nothin to do with her so they can both rote in hell???
My SS does not even know his BM he has not seen her since he was 2 and has talked to her as many times as I can count on my hand. The only reason he knows anything about her is because he has heard my DH and his family talk about her and the bull shit she pulled with me when she found out I was pregnant.
on Jan. 31, 2013 at 1:04 AM