My DH said he has told BM that he will not let SD go for visitation Friday. I am so tired of the drama I dont want to deal with it anymore, I dont want it around my DS and family. I agree with DH.. but think its a lost cause I am ready to throw in the towel. His reasons are because in the 8 months we have had custody BM has not spent any time with SD. She has picked her up a couple times but dumps her somewhere and SD is spending the night with boys. Sd 21 who lives there (another state) doesnt want her there because she cares about her little sister and doent want her to end up pregnant. One of the boys fathers where she stayed threatened to call CPS on her parents for not knowing where she is and he was hiding her there from her father. . Plus the BM moved out of her house with aguy she has known now for 1 month with a criminal record. But everytime this child hooks up with a new BF our life is hell. She skipped a class and when asked about it she said "I had errands to run". No straight answers. DH took her phone again. Wont come out of room, posting disrespectful crap on twitter and facebook to make DH mader. Set up a twitter account and facebook account for my DS 11 who I said could not do that. Last week I believed in tough love.. hold your ground enforce rules. But when you have another parent working against you I dont think parents have a prayer. Honestly this is only the 2nd time BM started calling insisting she was picking up SD and both times have been when SD was mad at DH for taking her phone (for sleeping around) .