Been a stepmom for 2 1/2 years now and have been csm of ss for two years and csm of sd now since September. We rent due to both of us having to short sell our houses, his because if the divorce and mine I just wanted out of last year. We had been discussing that we would buy something in two years so we didn't have to keep moving around.
A few weeks ago he made a comment that he no longer wanted to buy anything with me because it would be harder if we split...um...I was not aware anything was wrong! He promised nothing was wrong but he was talking to a therapist again because he was having an issue with buying a house with me and he was working through it...
today he suddenly got angry about something he made up in his head. He thought sd was mad at me and she wasn't (I asked her) he projected anyway, shouted this is why I dont want to buy a house with you! I am not sure how much longer I can stand you! And slammed the door, not before he almost hit me with his fist and I had to back away.
When I met him he never thought he would have his kids full time and I was instrumental in helping to make his wish come true...now I feel like perhaps he has what he wants and feels he no longer needs me...I am so hurt and feel used and very confused.