Yesterday I went to visit DFs sister. She's been in the hospital for a few weeks. I went alone and that's the first time me and her have had time to just be the two of us in awhile. So the whole time I'm there visiting with her, her topic of conversation is BM. It kinda rubbed me the wrong way because here I am coming to visit you, trying to have a bonding moment with you and all you wanna do is talk about her.
So finally after about an hour of trying to gage how I feel about BM at this point in time, she comes out and tells me "BM really wants to have a sit down with you, she has a lot on her heart she wants to get off and I think you should do it".
At first I laughed thinking she's got to be fucking kidding me, but I saw that she was serious. So she went on to plead BMs case about all the hurt she feels etc etc etc and she wants the chance to tell me her side of the story once and for all.
I declined the offer stating that what happened, happened and I've moved on from it. I'm in a place where I've accepted what I can't change BUT I'm not interested in hearing the gory details.
I left and came home and didn't even bother to share this with DF. I put it in the these bitches hav e lost their minds file and moved on. So today I get a call from DFs cousin. She's telling me DFs sister called and they were talking so the sister feels like I'm being a bitch and causing more issues because I'm not open to sitting down talking to BM.
I was quite upset when I got off the phone and was ready to call his sister and put her in her place. I mean seriously its like wtf do yall want from me? Me and BM have nothing to talk about ever.
Am I really wrong for not being open to hearing "her side" of the story??