I decided not to attend my Oldest SD's bridal shower. My DH has no family at all, my OSD's are all in the wedding party and my DD was not invited. So I will really feel out of place. I have had the BM to my home but after a couple issues lately and knowing the history of these people I really thing a bridal Brawl wouldnt be out of the question. I am too old to be brawling..lol OSD was mad/upset at first but we discussed it and said she agreed and her family was crazy.