I've been divorced and remarried all in a period under five years. I have a SS that is a senior and a DD that is a sophmore. So, thinking to the coming graduation, then hers, I'm wondering.....would it be weird for the birth parents to pose in a picture together with their child, for their child if the child asks or the BM? Do you do this, or is it forever separate pictures for graduation, weddings, etc.. BM isn't with anyone so would we pose as the three of us with SS or what? I will always be a little of jealous of BM because she had DH first, but we don't have any problems being around each other or getting along. The three of us have visited colleges together with him. It probably won't be an issue because SS hates pictures anyway, but thinking about it all just made me curious.