I'm not sure what her goal is, but mine is to bury the hatchet and move forward. I'm not interested in being friends or anything like that, but I also don't want to use the energy it takes to spend the rest of our lives angry about shit we cannot change.
While I'm going in with a positive mindset, I know how she is and as my bff said, her goal is more than likely foolishness and fuckery to the utmost. I just pray its not.
So pray for me ladies, that today is the start of a new beginning for us.
So things didn't go GREAT but I wouldn't say they went bad also. I really don't know how to categorize it.
We met at a restaurant. At first I declined to have a drink because I feel like alcohol in the midst of certain situations can only make shit worse.
Anyway we started talking. I let her go first since she was the one pressing for the meeting and it was eh, interesting. She tried to play the victim in the situation, but like I told her honestly I feel NO PITY for you because you knew. You knew where me and him were in our relationship and willingly went along with the bullshit. She tried to tell me all of the shit he supposedly told her BUT I still say BS.
I let her know how I felt about her whole ultimatum to him about either choose his daughter (her child) or me because he couldn't have both. According to her she felt like that because she was afraid for her daughter because so many people have told her that I've said and I feel xyz about her and her baby. So we got to the nitty gritty of all the rumors swirling around about us, all the he said, she said and its funny how it all has one common denominator..... His cousin. Smdh
We talked a little longer, I finally had a drink. By the time I left I actually felt a little sorry for her,because you could see in her eyes that she really believed if she went along with the foolishness, in the end she would get the "prize"
I gave her my number (not really sure why) and told her she could call me anytime (again not sure why, it just seemed like the right thing to say **shrugs**) and left.
Again I'm not sure what the future holds, but a lot of times I read post around here and feel so sorry for the children mixed up in it and I know I just don't want that for us. So I'm gonna try my best to keep the peace and keep the communication lines open and just continue to pray on it all...
Thanks for listening.