My SS is 24, lives with his mom and has a minimum wage job, dropped out of college. We see him less than once a month. DH pays his cell phone and carries him on his insurance,. Lately he has been going over his data plan which adds another $10 to his bill, plus he had an international long distance call on there for $7 this month. This made his cell bill this month $50. DH mentioned last month that he had gone over his data and he said he didn't know, he doesn't get notified. I know that is a lie because I have had it happen on my phone and you get like three texts before it has gone over saying it's about to happen.
DH glanced at the bill this month but didn't see his charges. Would you point them out? We have joint account paying bills but he makes a little more than me and he's always paid that cell bill. It annoys me that he and BM enable SS to be a slacker and I can't help but wonder how many more years we have of supporting him. He seems content and DH just wants to have a communicative relationship with him so he lets it go. DH is very, very defensive when it comes to anyone pointing out his kids shortcomings other than him. If I even seem to agree with him, he comes back with an excuse for their behavior after he is the one that brought it up.