Dh and bm had a big blow up at our home about things that go on here and there and how bm let's her parents be "the parent." Things changed for like a couple weeks. Fast forward to now, which is months later, they rarely communicate. He is fed up with talking to her about the same stuff, she doesn't change anything. SD behaved great at our house for a couple weeks. Then bm calls Dh to complain about how her behavior there has been so bad that week. She took a cell phone to school and got caught, isn't writing homework down, talking back etc. She wants to up her meds which is her answer to everything. Psychiatrist said no already. SD behavior gets worse here. Like way worse than it was before the two weeks she behaved.
Then he calls her last weekend to say she is almost out of risperdal and focal in. Bm says OK. She doesn't meet me at the school so o drive to her house on Friday after picking up SD. Bm car is there. SD goes in. Bm not there. BMS dad calls her. No answer. SD comes out with focalin and no risperdal. Says bm says we can't have any because she has five pills left and that's it. I'm mad because I had to drive here, am told I can't take her meds with me that she needs.
Get home. Bm calls Dh and says sorry was sleeping in car. Doesn't bring meds. SD throws fit because she didn't tell bm she had homework Thursday night and has to do it Friday night. SD is being a complete brat. Dh says I'm tired of dealing with bm. She knows SD has to have this medicine. I don't know what else to do.
I am tired of them. I told him I understand his frustration with bm but if he isn't going to hold her accountable andthey aaren't going to coparent, why the hell do I have to go through hell every weekend?!
Just a rant but if you feel like giving advice that is fine too.