So in a previous post I explained our situation. But here is a brief run down.
Over the summer, BM had CPS investigate her and her SO for child neglect. She refused to do any reccomendations, and even left the state she is in (Central NY State). She wanted DH to get custody, so she could then try to get custody back here in our state (PA). He never did that, knowing that she "manipulates" (his words). She missed two court hearings, where she was found guilty of neglect. She now has county supervised vists twice a week, for an hour each time. She is not allowed to call, send mail, anything directly to SS (whom is residing with maternal grandmother, but is considered a ward of the state).
DH has been working with CPS in that county of NY, and they seem to want him to have custody, and he is working with them, and their terms so that will happen at the end of the school year.
Here is where his question comes in. BM is required to take certain classes (parenting and domestic violence), has to keep up with therapy for Bi-polar and psychosis (not sure of the actual diagnosis) at county approved location, keep up with meds, do visits, and talk with CPS worker regularly. We know she hasn't visited SS since November, but DH was wondering if there is some way he can find out if she is doing the other requirements? He is going to fight for SS no matter what, but he wants to know what he is going against.