DH and I are expecting! This is my first child and DH second. SS is 10. I am just about to reach the end of my first trimester and have arranged to have our pictures taken for our announcement cards. The photographer has made signs for each of us to hold (me, DH and ss). My sign would say "he did it" with an arrow pointing at DH. DH's sign would say "yeah I got her" and SS would hold a sign saying "and now I'm gonna be a big brother". SS has 3 younger siblings from his BM none of them are from DH. Would it be wrong to have SS hold that sign? I don't see anything wrong with this but a friend of mine thinks I am wrong for not acknowledging that SS is already a big brother. Any thoughts?