My Sd's 3 birthday parties have all been well under par and on a declining slope. Her 3rd birthday party, it was like her Bm forgot until the day before. We all met at a park, Bm had taken Sd to the dollar store to pick out some toys and bought one of those plain chocolate cakes at Safeway. It was just...terrible. Although I am very thankful that My Husband, Dd and I were invited to her birthdays.
So, I wanted to do a party for her also this year and planned on inviting Bm and her family. My Dh doesn't like the idea of having two parties because he doesn't want it to be a competition. (Which isn't my intention at all, I just want to give her a good party) So he's going to ask Bm if we can throw the party this year.
My question is: What are your opinions?