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This is her 4th serious relationship since the divorce and 2nd engagement. She told sd ur going to have a new 2nd daddy. Dh wishes she wouldn't do that but I tell him its up to us to show sd family dynamics. The problem is every man that bm dates is first name daddy until she's engaged then they are just daddy.then they break up and she whines that she misses having more siblings and a 2nd daddy. If that's not bad enough this time bms boyfriend is also her stepbrother. Their parents married when they were mid 20s and they started dating last yr. They have broke up 3 times and everytime dh think of a way to explain this man that will never go away as still a good man but yet not her 2nd daddy and then they break up. My biggest issue is the man and her bio brother threated to kick dh ass because they say sd doesn't get enough disapline. I'm very worried about spring break visit because I don't know what's going to happen.
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by on Feb. 23, 2013 at 9:27 PM
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dawnnamarie
by Silver Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 1:42 AM
Drunk or not, that comment is bs!! What does dh think? Can he get something put into the co protecting sd from this man?

Can that comment not be considered a threat ??


Quoting mamaBerg85:

I'm not so much worried about messing up SD's values and DH is. I know that him and I are pretty much in control of that because she sees us more. I'm more worried about BM being engaged to her step brother because even if they break up they are still together SD still has to be around this man during visits. The same man that threated my husband to kick his ass and take my SD away because DH "doesn't know how to disapline the autism out of SD" Yes he said this while he was drunk but that doesn't mean he couldn't harm SD. I wish I could convince DH to do something about this. I'm not sure what exactly but I'm scared for SD to be around BMs boyfriend/step brother. I mean like physically scared not because it will mess up her morals but because I don't know what disapline the autism out of her means.



Quoting Polkadotted:

you just gotta let it go.  In one ear and out the other.  Who cares what BM does?  She won't do that much damage to SD's value systems in the little amount of time she sees her.

Quoting mamaBerg85:

I'm not really sure how I mean bm v says this shit to us.





Quoting baparrot2:

you are creating your own shit by even knowing about this....







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mamaBerg85
by Silver Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 1:49 AM

We can't prove that her step brother was actually the one who sent the text because he sent them from BM's bio brother's phone according to the attorney we could only get something put in from the PP if we can prove that BM's boyfriend was the one sending the text and not BM's bio brother. I know that was confusing!


Quoting dawnnamarie:

Drunk or not, that comment is bs!! What does dh think? Can he get something put into the co protecting sd from this man?

Can that comment not be considered a threat ??


Quoting mamaBerg85:

I'm not so much worried about messing up SD's values and DH is. I know that him and I are pretty much in control of that because she sees us more. I'm more worried about BM being engaged to her step brother because even if they break up they are still together SD still has to be around this man during visits. The same man that threated my husband to kick his ass and take my SD away because DH "doesn't know how to disapline the autism out of SD" Yes he said this while he was drunk but that doesn't mean he couldn't harm SD. I wish I could convince DH to do something about this. I'm not sure what exactly but I'm scared for SD to be around BMs boyfriend/step brother. I mean like physically scared not because it will mess up her morals but because I don't know what disapline the autism out of her means.



Quoting Polkadotted:

you just gotta let it go.  In one ear and out the other.  Who cares what BM does?  She won't do that much damage to SD's value systems in the little amount of time she sees her.

Quoting mamaBerg85:

I'm not really sure how I mean bm v says this shit to us.





Quoting baparrot2:

you are creating your own shit by even knowing about this....









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