I need some advise... I have 3 step children 16,13, & 8 and my son is 19 and in college 850 miles away. I am having a difficult time with my husbands 3 kids bickering, arguing, not listening & lying constantly. I never delt with that with my son, he was a pretty easy kid. (not saying he was perfect though) Since November, we have had them every other week. (before that we lived in another state & I didn't have a whole lot of time with them except summers) I hate myself that I'm always crabbing at them and dissapointed in their behavior. I'm no fun to be around and feel like the worst mom in the world, sometimes not even liking them too much. The guilt is overwhelming.... any help out there?