My DH and I just found out his ex-wife has told my SD (age 12) that she can have a boy / girl slumber party this year for her birthday. Everyone gets to stay the night including the boys. I think this is a crazy idea and she is asking for trouble! My DH is also really upset but doesn't know what he can do to stop it since it is at her house. When he called her on it she said she didn't understand why he was so upset and she thought it would be fun for the kids. This coming from a woman that got pregnant with her first son at 15 from a one night stand makes me honestly hope history will not repeat itself.