Thinks she is gonna ignore me for the rest of her life. She emailed me yest telling me not to email or text her anymore. Well, I do send her emails and texts from time to time and that is my only form of communicating with her. I need to let her know certain things like the fact that I had to put hydrocortisone on a rash, that the girls tell me she's bad mouthing me and asking her to stop, that the girls hair came all matted, that the 11 year old came with full makeup, lace panties and hot pants and I washed her face and threw out the clothes, to please stop telling them they are fat and will always be fat. Then there are things not involving sd's like to stop harassing my 14 year old on Facebook and Instagram, to stop talking to his family members about what was purchased on the baby registry. To stop having her bills billed to our home. These are all things I email to document for court. Look coparenting is what he court wants. I'ts like I told he when I emailed her. I'm a divorced mom, too. I have to swallow a lot as bm, but what's most important is the well being of my children. There's a lot of people I'd rather not deal with but I have to bc my children love them and hold them dear. I don't want to hurt my kids relationships. She should be glad that I care and do all I do for them. Things she refuses like intract with teachers who say she doesn't seem to care, their health and proper diet, we hande hw on a daily basis bc 1st grade and 5 th grade work in her opinion " is too much to handle (mind u, shes a teachers aide) and on and on. If there's something she needs to know, I will email it bashes needs to learn to coparent and that's that. The girls call me mom amd I'm gonna be there for the rest of their lives and she just needs to get over it and move on. Before you go on rampages, DH emails her and she ignores him too. It's been 3 years! Move on!
Phonestly and seriously. Many of you are right even though I don't want to seem like I'm overstepping. I'm BM AND SM and I just wrote this when I was angry like most people do here. I'm adjusting. The first few years were ok. None of this drama started until I got pregnant. I'm sure there's more drama to go I'm absolutely sure of it. All this drama just came out of nowhere. Things were ok I thought. In the past she contacted me to tell me things like sd12 got her period and that they had colds and when they had lice, that they needednsocjs, etc and I always responded and informed her of things, too. Her and DH would talk as well. I wouldn't say we were friends but we communicated as far as the children. She would tell DH and tell me. Now like I said, since I got pregnant and had the baby, things went 180. But i guess I trusted a little too much that the situation would not turn into the nightmares I hear about and I got screwed. I won't be contacting her anymore in any way shape or form.