so, this past weekend was BM's weekend with the skids. SO did ask her if we could pick them up for a family b day party at 1 pm. she said ok.
SO works most saturdays but he took this one off because he was tired and wanted to sleep in. BM called before 9 am. SO answered, she asked when are you getting the kids.. he said later. WAY later.
1030 am. hes asleep, im getting dressed. multiple back to back calls for over ten minutes alternating from her house phone and cell. what the fuck? he finally asnwered and told her "wtf?" she wants to know when are you getting the kids he says I TOLD YOU WAY LATER THE PARTY'S AT 1. she says oh well i had some plans. he said i will get them noonish. this made me angry so i told SO, we planned on running errands to return adn exchange some of my baby shower gifts but shes blowing youi up on HER weekend like we need to be on her fucking schedule. he apologized and said we would take care of everything tomorrow.
when he went, there was some dude weve seen around her house before there with HIS kid. -_____-
we take the kids to the party then take them back to her.
next morning same shit. calling asking if he will take the kids. he said no. we then go on our errands. while out we find ss11's only school pants in the car. only school pants because she hasnt bought him any -_____- oh and WE got him these school pants, he was in shorts in winter up til then. anyways. he calls and tells her hes bringing the pants by and she says "oh willl you take the kids? i want to do something for a few hours" he says NO we are running baby errands and its too hard to have trhee kids in tow if we dont need to! so when we go by shes clearly either tired or hung over and has a stank 'tude. um, sorry we didnt take the kids all your weekend? -____-