Anyways DH thinks she is trying to stay in the down low because she doesn't want him to find out about whats happening. Because he could use it against her? I'm not sure. But I have to admit that I'm am a little worried about her and SS.
Less crazy- I talked to her on the phone and she didn't flip out lol. She was polite.
Anywho, we don't have details but SS said that his papa is in jail because his mom was all bloody. We took it as bm's dad beat her up. Checked the county website and he IS incarcerated. But it doesn't say what for. She also called at the last min Sunday to say she was moving and to drop SS off at her new place. It's not her own place. She's obviously staying with someone.
But I think, if it was a fight between her and her dad, he'd have a no contact order with her. So he couldn't come home from jail if she's there. So I think her mom kicked her out.
It's weird feeling this sympathetic concern for her. But I know it's probably super rough. I almost want to text her and ask if everything is alright and if there's anything I can do to help. She doesn't have a car so I'm wondering if she has a way to get SS back and fourth to school.